Showing posts with label tips for traveling with kids. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tips for traveling with kids. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 5, 2014

Survival Skills for Traveling With Kids – Free Rest Area Activities

Florida Welcome Center
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Nobody ever said traveling with kids would be easy. I love going places with my kids, but sometimes patience wears thin as everyone gets tired of riding. We were not designed to remain strapped in one place for hours.

Even if you arm yourself with a wealth of fun activities, rarely will you ever get from point A to point B without a few bumps on the ride. I have found that stopping at rest areas along the way can greatly increase the likelihood that we will arrive to our destination with all body parts intact.

Those who are traveling along major highways may notice blue signs for rest areas. Most people look at these as a quick stop to visit the restroom and maybe grab a snack. However many rest areas offer more options for those who are traveling.

Free Picnic Shelters at Rest Stops - Photo by jdurham
Pack a Picnic

This one takes a little prior planning, but can well be worth the effort. Rather than turning the car into a rolling restaurant, take the time to sit down and enjoy a meal together. Make eye contact. Converse. Enjoy.

Involve the kids in packing the food, drink, and supplies. Local farmers often offer roadside stands where you can purchase fresh fruits, veggies, and other edible delights. This can be a great opportunity to support local businesses as well as investing in quality time together.

If you really want to get serious about it, some rest areas may offer grills. Others may find that an electric grill powered through the car works well. Ensure that you pack an oven mitt and utensils for transferring hot foods from one place to the next if you decide to go with hot foods.

Fitness Opportunities at Rest Areas - Photo by veggiegretz
Get Active!

Some rest areas now offer walking trails and fitness opportunities. Many trails that I have seen at rest areas are also handicap accessible. Taking a walk together can be a nice time to unwind while stretching everyone's legs. Some trails also include information about the local flora or wildlife. I'd love to see all rest areas offering playgrounds for children and adults in the future!

Take a few moments to pack small items in the trunk, such as bubbles, various types of balls, a Frisbee, sidewalk chalk, and a jump rope. If you don't have any of those items, many kids will immediately join in if you tell them that you'll race them to a spot and begin running or if you tap someone on the shoulder and say "Tag...you're it!" If you have older kids who look mortified, you can always mention that you could practice dancing the Wobble or doing yoga poses if they would prefer.

Sometimes the weather or environment may offer unplanned opportunities. I've been known to get in a few snowball fights and even a few pinecone fights with my kids. There's nothing quite like pelting the ones you love as you laugh and play. Sitting down and enjoying a beautiful rainbow or watching a blue heron fly over can be one of those unplanned moments that the kids might remember for years.

Veterans Memorials at Rest Areas Along the Interstate
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Learn Something New

Many rest areas, particularly those that are on a state line, include a welcome center. A few visitor centers offer free samples of a drink or food that is popular in that state. I have discovered several fun activity ideas simply by visiting a welcome center in a rest area. Don't hesitate to speak with the people working in the welcome center – let them know your route and they will often be able to offer tips for family-friendly activities.

Free brochures are often available in welcome centers. Watch the kids to see what types of brochures attract their curiosity. Even if you do not have time to visit the area on this trip, you might make plans for future trips. If you do not have prior reservations, you might find some coupons for hotels in the area. Those who work at the welcome center might be aware of discounts for amusement parks and other popular destinations as well.

Some rest areas now feature veterans memorials. If you are traveling with a veteran, it would be wise to check first to see if seeing the memorial is okay with him or her. Many veterans do long to see memorials, and a smaller scale memorial at a rest area might be less intimidating to see than the larger ones. This could be a great time for the rest of the family to learn more about family members or friends who served in the military.

Enjoy Wildlife at Rest Stops
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Family-Friendly Activities at Rest Areas

It is easy to forget the importance of the journey in our rush to arrive. Taking a few minutes to rest, relax, unwind, and spend some time together is time well invested. We often want our kids to be relaxed, refreshed, and adorable; however, we often find it easy for ourselves to become rushed, irritated, and ready to take a vacation from the vacation. Our children learn much by what they see in us. Stop and enjoy the time while you can.

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Saturday, March 23, 2013

How to Make a Long Road Trip With Kids Less Stressful

Anyone who has traveled with small children will likely agree that stress levels can increase with the mileage on the odometer. Even that middle of the night trip carefully planned during a child's normal sleeping hours could result in a child wide awake and wailing as you roll to your destination. Yes, I speak from experience!

Over the years, I have learned a few lessons and welcome readers to share lessons learned in the comment section at the bottom.

Tips for Traveling With Kids
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Lesson #1: Plan Frequent Breaks

Don't wait until the car is running on fumes before stopping. A simple ten minute stop at a rest area can be invigorating for everyone. Many rest areas in the Southeast where I tend to travel offer picnic tables. Pack a snack and enjoy the fellowship. Bring age appropriate recreational items such as a small ball, jump rope, or Frisbee and interact with the kids. It is time well invested. County recreational parks are often free and offer a variety of physical challenges for children.

Practical Tips for Road Trips With Children
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Lesson #2: Pack Travel Snacks

Nothing seems to make my kids hungrier than going on a trip. A few snack foods may lengthen the time between stops. Pretzels, dry cereal, and fresh fruit tend to work well. A good rule of thumb when packing travel snacks is to imagine it all over the back seat and on the kids. If it wipes up, brushes off, or vacuums fairly easily, it usually gets the green light from me. Cups with secure lids can also cause a lot less grief in the back seat.

What to Pack When Traveling With Kids
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Lesson #3: Pack Plenty of Things to Do

A little prior planning goes a long way. Go to the local library and find age appropriate books that the kids have never read. While you are there, check out some music and books on CD that everyone can enjoy. If you have a portable DVD player, a couple of movies that nobody has seen can add suspense and help the sitting seem much less of a burden, especially if you end up in a traffic jam or if the weather takes a turn for the worse. The local Smart Start office is often brimming with fun activities for preschoolers.

Simple travel games like Punchbug or a Silly Guided Tour can entertain the kids for quite a while. The professor in me wants to add a bit of education to the trip. As you travel, you will be surrounded by shapes, colors, letters, words, man-made items, and the beauty of nature. Learning while on the move can be fun and engaging!

How to Avoid Problems When Traveling With Kids
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Lesson #4: Prepare the Vehicle

Ensuring that the vehicle has been serviced, that the tires are in good shape, and that the air conditioner or heater are in good working order can make a huge difference. Repair known issues before the ride if possible. If you think a trip seems long while you are riding down the road, it can seem like an eternity without a/c or if you have to pull off the side of the road while waiting for a tow truck.

How to Keep From Getting Lost When Traveling With Kids
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Lesson #5: Plan Your Route and a Backup Route

If you have another person who can help navigate, using a map or printing directions from a web site like MapQuest can work pretty well. Going solo on unfamiliar roads can certainly add to the stress. A working GPS system can be very helpful for those who are venturing to unknown places. Having a backup plan is also wise – I usually try to print directions to/from the destination and carry a map of the states where I plan to travel. My local Chamber of Commerce offers free state maps.

How to Have Fun When Traveling With Kids
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Lesson #6: Be Flexible

Sometimes the favorite memories come from those unexpected stops, unplanned activities, and detours that you would have never planned. A tasty snack from a roadside fruit stand or family picnic by a beautiful trout stream might be savored more than the finest restaurant experience. Allow extra time in the schedule for the unexpected. Unplug, unwind, and discover the joy of connecting with the family. They won't be kids forever. Simply stated, enjoy the journey.

How to Make a Trip with Children More Fun
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Lesson #7: Go for Comfort

Help the kids select comfortable clothing for the trip up and back. The beautiful, fancy clothes will likely be much more comfortable packed in the trunk. You might want to mention this before the children are selecting their travel attire. We usually pack an extra set of clothes and extra jackets for unexpected spills or weird weather.

How to Encourage Kids to Help With Planning a Trip
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Lesson #8: Involve the Kids in the Planning

Children are often brimming with ideas about what they might like to do in and out of the vehicle on a road trip. Ask for their ideas. You might be surprised at how creative your little ones can be when helping to plan a trip. You might also give specific guidance before they collect all of their stuffed animals, dolls, and toys!

Tips for Traveling With Children
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Simple Tips for Traveling with Children

Simplicity may become sublime on a long road trip with children. Many people lament the lack of quality time they have with the kids. Riding together in a vehicle can become unexpected quality time for everyone. Years later, you may miss those trips with the kids when they are grown and out on their own.

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Friday, October 26, 2012

Traveling With Kids – How to Enjoy the Journey

How to Enjoy Traveling With Kids © Katrena
Some people dread traveling with kids. Driving down winding mountain roads with a kid who gets carsick easily? I feel your pain. Have the whiners, grumblers, fighters, front seat kickers, and multiple bathroom breakers? Hang in there. Can't afford a GPS and realize the MapQuest directions aren't exactly what you expected after driving for miles into what seems like nowhere? I can relate.

Enjoy Nature While Traveling © Katrena
Despite the many challenges of traveling with children, I still love to hop in the car and explore with the kids. It can be so tempting to focus only on the destination, but if we never look out the side windows, we might miss the spectacular, yet fleeting, array of colors painted on the edge of the sky. Perhaps that unexpected stop might offer an unusual adventure or ensure that an accident waiting to happen doesn't.

Going Unplugged on a Car Ride - Photo by eleliam at Wikimedia Commons
Although modern technology has many advantages, sometimes the devices tend to divide people into individual worlds. If everyone is wearing earbuds or watching a screen, conversation may evaporate. Going "unplugged" for at least part of the journey may feel risky, but we might grow to have a deeper relationship with the family.

Enjoy Unexpected Detours When Traveling with Children - Photo by Richard David Ramsey at Wikimedia Commons
Traveling with children can be a humbling experience, but those little people in the back seat may all too soon be behind the wheel themselves. Allow extra time for breaks. Be open to the unexpected. Who knows? Maybe the journey will be one of those quirky parts of a trip that everyone fondly remembers years down the road.

Read more of Katrena's articles at Love 2 Travel With Kids and Travel NC With Kids.